It's neither easy nor funny

There are a great number of humans have begun to forget how to act like a human.

This is what I found on Wikipedia about the meaning of "suicide" 

Suicide is the act of intentionally causing one's own death. Risk factors include mental disorders such as depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, personality disorders, and substance abuse — including alcoholism and the use of benzodiazepines. Other suicides are impulsive acts due to stress such as from financial difficulties, troubles with relationships, or bullying. Those who have previously attempted suicide are at a higher risk for future attempts. Suicide prevention efforts include limiting access to methods of suicide — such as firearms, drugs, and poisons; treating mental disorders and substance misuse; proper media reporting of suicide; and improving economic conditions. Even though crisis hotlines are common, there is little evidence for their effectiveness.

Taking a topic about Commit to Suicide is not that easy to be elaborated, cause a healthy human know this is very sensitive. Because it involves the feelings between 2 sides (a doer and a circle). And these are the main factor of the case.

First, I would talk as the first point of view, a Doer.

Me, pathetically ever been on this role. I kid u not. And I guess there are a lota people out there ever been the same. We thought that we were kind of trash and there's no way to continue our life. We felt that all people didn't understand us, and thought that all fucked up and we didn't recognize a 'happiness' along our life. We thought that we lost hope already.

That was not a cliche.

That was not a planned drama.

That was a real feeling ever, a real emotion between human and evil.

Being on this role made u completely suffer from understanding and affection. The only thing that you should do at first is, talk to ur circle. Just please, be brave to share what is ur feelings, and problems. It might be difficult cause u would tend to be alone, but if any of u who read this were on this position, I beg u to speak ur mind out to others, to the one who u trusted of. Yes, u have to trust at least one person in your life whether ur best friend/family.

If it's still impossible for u to find out one person, I suggest u make ur personal diary. U can try to write, or type ur minds. As free as a bird, as much as u can, as rude as u want. Then after u write ur whole probs, u should make a list of gratitude, start from the simplest & the smallest. such as your breath. There are so many people just died accidentally instead they still had a list of things to do on their life and had no chance to made it cause they had no "breath" anymore.

God gives us a 'breath' for a reason. We made & born definitely to be something. Believe in my words, at least this.

And I bet, after u have passed through this phase, u could love ur life more gentle. Just please, be patient to wait for the rainbow. A little more, soon.

Second, I would talk as a second point of view, a Circle.

Actually how much we know our circle's feelings, heart, problems, and life? How far we aware and care about em? How real we are when they were down? And, how to react properly to em?

Yes, maybe it seemed taboo and scary at the same time for u when ur friend/fam was really depressed & try to commit a suicide. But am sure, the signs of the depressions can be seen and felt if u care enough. If u see the signs, a preventive solution will be more effective as long as u have a sincere intention to fix it. Sometimes, humans intentionally ignore that signs. As I told u, humans often forget how to act like a human. U can start to make a conversation or bring em into some place for refreshing. U can talk, discuss, and make a positive energy. Strengthen their soul. It can drive them into a real life and not giving them a chance to decide on suicide. Nevertheless, don't forget to keep in touch just for making sure whether they have recovered already or not. 

And please avoid the reactions like :

"Norak ah"

"Ngapain sih kyk gitu, alay"

"Jangan kayak anak labil laah"

"Drama banget luu"

"Kebanyakan nonton sinetron nih"

Don't u ever dare to throw those words to your friend/fam who were on a commit suicide syndrome. It won't help a thing but just make things worse. If u don't know how to respond and advice, at least u can be just a good listener. Just listen, then try to understand the details, and convince them that u would stay to listen, and not gonna leave them. U can also magnify their heart with positive words. If u wanna start to make some jokes, please, don't put any words like what I've told above. Make everything as positive as possible. And yes, u have to be relax & wise. After that, it would help u to be more mature and grateful in a different position. 

Dalai Lama ever said ;

"We can live without religion and meditation, but we can't survive without Human Affection."

For a doer, if u wanna get love, start to love urself first.

For a circle, if u wanna help them, be aware & gentle.

                                                                                                                                               Tari

                                                                                                                                         who had been both